Date: Mon, 7 Apr 2008 20:24:59 -0600
Reply-To: miguel pacheco <mundopacheco@GMAIL.COM>
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From: miguel pacheco <mundopacheco@GMAIL.COM>
Subject: Re: Ladies and Vanagons
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In all honesty (this time,) falling short of bankrupting the family, a guy
has to have a hobby, right? This hobby may or may not include her, etc. I
love doing things with my wife, after all she is my best friend, but, if
there is something I love that she does not, I am happy to call it my own.
Rafting, for example, she doesn't really like the big water, so that is my
thing. I guess what I'm saying here is that you don't both have to like the
same things and do everything together (hey, I'm being sensitive here.) On
the vanagon thing, specifically, our major point of contention is 'how many'
vans I get to have. I agree with Bryan, that if all you have is a GL, and
you can only have one, you should sell it and get a camper. As for me, I
have to have my beautiful Syncro camper that gets all the treats, my beater
Syncro that can go where my lovely bride assures me (with hands clasped to
her face) it cannot, and a third, 2wd GL for daily driving.......oh and
there's the parts vehiles to support these three.
On a more serious note, it is not just about the van, it is about the
community that goes with it! It is a way of life for many of us.
On Mon, Apr 7, 2008 at 7:45 PM, Jake de Villiers <
crescentbeachguitar@gmail.com> wrote:
> Oh great, relationship advice from a single guy! Or is it Newlywed Neil?
> :)
>
> I think Bryan's doing better in the advice department......"if it's not a
> camper then sell it and get a camper. "
>
> My wife and partner of almost 32 (!) years loves our vans and is looking
> forward to the Subaru 2.5 install. I think she plans to take over Dixie
> as
> her daily driver.
>
> On Mon, Apr 7, 2008 at 6:35 PM, BJ Feddish <bfeddish@netreach.net> wrote:
>
> > >> Would like to endear my wife to my Vanagon and she seems to think
> that
> > it's prehistoric! ???? Any points of view that would coax her into more
> $$
> > and more trips for 'Gringo' would be appreciated. :-) I'm NOT whippped,
> > Scott!! Hehehehehe <<
> >
> > Your tag line says "91GL AT 'Gringo'". Hmmm is that just a regular GL
> > non-camper? If it's just a GL then there is not much you can do. It
> will
> > grow on her though when she see's how practical it is. Is it in nice
> > shape?
> > A 91 GL in nice shape is a pretty cozy vehicle. If it's camper than
> that's
> > a
> > different story. Take her camping somewhere really quiet and scenic for
> > the
> > weekend. Plan everything in advance including meals, etc. Let her just
> > relax the whole time. Do all the cooking, cleaning, etc. Make sure the
> > weather is perfect. Stay away from private campgrounds.
> >
> > Actually, if it's not a camper then sell it and get a camper. ;)
> >
> > My first camper was a '72. When I got it back from the mechanics from
> > having
> > the engine done (the engine was blown when I bought it from some
> stranded
> > Californian) I took my wife for a ride. It was April and still cold. The
> > first stop we came to all the moldy water that was accumulating in the
> > broken sunroof came pouring down on my wife. Our first camping trip we
> > stayed at a private campground in 100 degree heat next to the meeting
> > house
> > where it was "square-dance night". There we were in the back of the van
> > trying sleep with the sweat, bug spray and the worlds loudest square
> dance
> > music and my wife says "I don't think I can do this again" while keeping
> > her
> > teeth clenched together.
> >
> > Somehow though she did most of the planning for out camping trips for
> the
> > next 20 years.
> >
> > Bryan
> >
>
>
>
> --
> Jake
> 1984 Vanagon GL
> 1986 Westy Weekender "Dixie"
> Crescent Beach, BC
> www.crescentbeachguitar.com
> http://subyjake.googlepages.com/mydixiedarlin%27
>
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Gracias,
Miguel
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